Penny
Simkin has written two good books which clearly illustrate medical
tools and their pros and cons. They are The Birth Partner and
Pregnancy, Childbirth and the Newborn. These are good resource
books and are a valuable resource for an informed doula. They can both
be purchased through the Maternal Wisdom affiliate store.
If you have a client that is 'on the fence' about
medical pain management, one suggestion is to
create a 'code word'. Many times a women in
labor will say things like 'help me, I can't do this
anymore', etc. As a doula it could be confusing as
to what her real desires are. Does she just need to be
coaching, encouraged and supported through a
difficult phase or does she really want a medical tool,
such a pain medication? If you create a 'code word'
prenatally than when she 'says the word' you know
she is serious about her choice. The word can be
anything, 'hot mamma', 'rescue me', 'soda pop', etc....
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